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March-April 1972

Exchange with Michael Tabor about Dating and Religious Education (1972)

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1. Michael Tabor to R. Lamm

1. Michael Tabor to R. Lamm (March 25, 1972)

1. Michael Tabor to R. Lamm (March 25, 1972)

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Dear Rabbi Lamm, I trust you are well and hope after this long absence you have not forgotten about me. Very much has happened in the last nin months so that really I don't know where to begin. There is so much I want to say about my experiences in Yugoslavia and my inner growth and development that perhaps I must save it up until I meet you one day. I hope to be in New York in the summer to see the Rebbe and perhaps I’ll see you then.I thought you may be interested in a summary of the report about the Yugoslavian trip that I made for WUJS and a copy of a short letter I wrote to the Rebbe just after I returned. We still keep in touch and WUJS is sending another group this year. My memories are so exhilarating but sad. My experiences were stimulating to an unimaginable degree and yet when I reflect especially on the situation of the 2 Czech students and 6 Rumanians and the look in their eyes when we finally said farewell, I feel terribly spiritually on edge, a numbness, a feeling of insignificant impotence. The discussions I had late at night with a most refined sensitive soul from Zagreb who was so ashamed about his ignorance of Judaism; the mature student from Sarajevo who was born amongst Tito's partisans in the woods and had hadno Bris etc., etc., all these memories fill me with both joy and sadness. I'll have to writ a book one day. Even now when I talk about what was also a wonderful holiday, I soon become high and talk with Hislahavus about Klall Yisrael.I also enclose a little article I had published about Chabad. It was in response to a rather negative letter that the editor asked me to reply to in 250 words. My involvement with Chabad has developed slowly but surely since I last wrote to you. The more I learn for myself in the original Yiddish and Hebrew texts, the more I became amazed about the depths that exist within the Jewish tradition. In fact I feel annoyed that for so long I was deprived of the philosophy and poetic approach of Chabad. One hears so…
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